Master of Spiritual Leadership
Lesson 4 Eight Fold Path Part 3
Paradigm……..how I see the world
An example I am working on is the following idea
If I love someone really much and the other person loves me as much we have love and communication this kind of love will always be in fact forever
This became my high view my self center idea my paradigm of relationship
Because I didn’t take a closer look and just believe in this concept as a real and perfect one I got myself in a lot of pain
First I had to take a real look at the situation not the way I wanted to live it but the way it was …I open my eyes to some different ideas :first…everything is moving in life nothing always stay the same everything is changing all the time some says if you don’t go forward you go backward …the stability doesn’t exist …even with love….
So even if I was thinking everything was great in this relationship I just forgot :the second concepts the other person…..
May be for her or for him it was not so perfect and even if nothing was mentioned sometime love is not enough and communication doesn’t always save a relationship
Looking at this angle everything change and my paradigm shift
I understood better the dynamism of the relationship
I can give 100% of myself if the other doesn’t believe anymore in what I still believe the relationship is broken and even with my 100% it will not make it works
This is the secret of a relationship if the two parts don’t work together in synergy nothing will happen the magic is not there anymore the mechanism is broken
To realize and live it in the same time is really painful
The solution to get over it to make the love for the other person even bigger than a relationship
Love is free and it is not expecting anything in return not even the love of another human being
So if I give more love and don’t expect anything I will be free from pain….The shift from love to LOVE is an extraordinary thing….
Keep the best and let go of the rest
Love… let go and… Let God
To let go of attachment anger control this is growing up
I need to go back to the big picture to understand better the situation and find a different right view and get over my selfish view
Love with big letters the real one with no attachment no expectation just free me completely
Understanding no judgment and respect of the other not just with words and mind but sincerely coming from the heart this is powerful
This is human nature to go back and for to doubt but after all only God is here forever for me and with me
He is the only one we can count on and not be disappointed
Christ was betray so many times and He kept smiling because I knew better
When He said before dying on the cross
“Father forgive them they don’t know what they are doing”
I can also do the same
When you decide to change your paradigm everything change in your life
You got wisdom peace and perfect Love
Thanks you for letting me know the truth for guiding my pen and discovering the essence of LOVE
My self center was driving by my own view of the situation by my paradigm
As soon …(it took me sometime to realize it) that I can change my paradigm but not the other person I took another disposition and a readiness to look at the situation differently ….everything change
When I decide to let go to see from the heart my mind followed
So clear so simple but not easy
When we decide to fight for the real thing for LOVE not just the human love everything change everything become clear
What would be your Baldur narrative concluded?
Like the phoenix …reborn from ashes
Need to have difficulty to understand better (we should be able to understand before the fall…)
Keep growing
Keep learning
Better / Stronger
Use the best understanding for later and share with other your own experiences
Story of life
Circle of life
Always come back to the true situation
How would you be reborn after your own Ragarock
Liberate
Find my own true self
Reinforce the connection between God and my soul
Don’t let the mind only dictated your point of view or you heart go to sadness
Let them work together for a better understanding of the wisdom of life
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